Tonight I asked Nick how he is feeling, how he’s coping, accepting, finding peace with his life now. I don’t expect him to be happy about his life right now, that would be unrealistic especially because he had surgery nine weeks ago that forced him back into intolerable pain and dependence. Compared to the life he used to live, I know his current life sucks. Instead of skydiving everyday, he is juggling doctors appointments, therapies, and chores. His life lacks the excitement and passion it once had, but we understand he’s on a mission and he’s investing in his future by doing what is necessary to have the greatest chance at a fulfilling life in the future. I hope that one day he can find intense happiness that he once had despite what has changed in his life.
But right now, he says he’s found quite a bit of peace with losing his legs, his mobility, and some of his most intimate functions. He’s accepted where he’s at, even though there are moments when he still hates it. These moments are fewer, shorter, and milder. At only fifteen months post-accident I think any level of acceptance is an impressive feat. Just dealing with and working through the anger and depression that naturally accommodates a permanent injury is outstanding. And he’s done it while maintaining a good attitude and laser focus on his goals.
Nick Fener represents Chuck Norris strength and Energizer endurance. He’s suffered and survived through misery that would cripple many of us, and somehow has never lost his sense of self or sense of humor. I’m so proud of my partner. Everyday he inspires me to be a better person, live with more love and gratitude, push through what scares and intimidates me, be authentic and honest, and appreciate and cultivate my health and happiness.
Thank you Nick.
I love you!
Hello lindsay and Nick,
I am hoping that each day that goes by, Nick gets stronger and pain free. For him to have some acceptance of what is and moving forward is huge. That will keep him going. Attitude is everything. I find it inspiring. Hope to see you soon. Bill and I are in Idaho now after being in Glacier National Park.
Simply Amazing. Both of you.
Nick N Lindsay…..I have met alot of people in my life and in the business that I am in, and there is NO ONE more inspiring to me than the two of you!! and believe me I have met my share of “Legends” I have also told your story to many of them and even without knowing you personelly they still feel like they know you and are praying that your journey is on the rise. Keep up the great work!! You two are AMAZING
Lindsay, I really think this blog should be published!!! You words things so wonderfully well- makes us all dig a little deeper into ourselves to see if we look at life the way guys do, so positive even after all the shit. Nick, you really are a strong positive man, people should read this and learn from you! Love you both!!!